Tuesday, October 19, 2004

Possible big daughter news.

Andrea left me a message saying that Amanda has been constantly asking if she's adopted and that Andrea thinks it's almost time to "do this." (Really, ya think?) I'll let you guys know more after I talk to her (hopefully later tonight).

6 comments:

keesh said...

I will say a prayer for you and them that it comes out finally and that the news runs smooth. :). I am so glad she if FINALLY coming around.

Jen said...

Well like I told Mom, her definition of "soon" and ours may not even be in the same ballpark. I'm trying to keep my emotions level until I talk to Andrea and find out exactly what she has in mind (how she wants to tell her, WHEN, etc.). But yeah, you're right--"roller coaster" is a good word. I've wanted her to know for almost 12 years--but now that the time may be getting close, I'm just--scared, nervous, excited.

Anonymous said...

I could be wrong, but Amanda's a very smart kid and I think she already knows (not details and stuff), she's just more or less trying to get Andrea *lucifer* to come clean about it. The time to "do this" was a long time ago and her keeping it secret for so long I really think is going to backfire big time. She's been doing this crap for a long time now, so who's to say if she'll actually do it or not. I'm gonna shut up now before I say things that I really shouldn't say. Be sure to let us know what happens. Love ya Jen and I'll be thinking about ya.
P.S. anyway I can get my name added to these damn posts without having to get an account? I'm just tired of being anonymous! lol
Nik

Jen said...

Just as an update, I called her last night but she had people over and couldn't talk; I'm calling her back either tonight or Thursday night. I'll let you guys know.

And Nikki, no, you'd have to create an account to get your name on there. I don't think it's too hard though (and I know it's free). Just suck it up, byatch.

Jen said...

I talked to her but frankly, I'm too pissed to talk about it right now. I don't know if we're dealing with a multiple personality thing or what, but now it sounds as if it WON'T be happening any time soon. I'll write more later when I can think coherently.

keesh said...

Jen - I am really sorry she keeps messing with you on this. You keep getting your hopes up and then shot back down. Do you ever talk to Amanda? There is probably no way you can tell her yourself is there? Sorry Jen, I will keep praying for this to happen!