Wednesday, October 10, 2007

Anti-climactic...

Since many of you already know, due to days of soul-searching and internal debate, but--

Dave and I are back together.

Yeah. Some of ya didn't see THAT coming, huh?

Let's just say that a phone call to get the rest of my stuff turned into a reconciliation.

He's a big butt sometimes, but hey --so am I. ;) And I love him, very much. And we've both changed a lot in the last few months. He's been reading up on BP (a plus by itself) and vows to stand by me, good AND bad. He'll be there during the "episodes" and more importantly, he wants to be actively involved to prevent us from getting to that stage, as much as possible. Did he handle this whole thing perfectly? Hell no. But this is a big deal and if he needed a couple months to adjust to the news, so be it. Furthermore, he said he wanted to make sure I was getting help for ME, and not for him--and I believe him (because I know myself). I was hesitant at first, and more than a little sad to give up my yummy Former Marine (who was quite understanding)--but I do believe that we're coming back together stronger than ever before.

And if I'm wrong? Well, you can bet that I'm keeping FM on speed dial. ;)

And a special shout-out to the Girl Tribunal. ;)

10 comments:

Renee said...

LMAO about keeping FM on speed dial :-)

And since the Girl Tribunal has been hashing this thing to death, there's absolutely nothing else to say other than that I really hope it works for you guys this time and I love ya!

anna said...

LOL on the back-up plan! Love it!

Ditto what Renee said. :)

Anonymous said...

But I don't want you to move to CA.

Renee said...

WHAT?!

Jen said...

Nothing.

anna said...

CA? You're already in beautiful, sunny FL. Why move to beautiful, sunny, CA?

I guess it's about the same to me with you living in a beautiful, sunny place and me needing to visit you.

BTW, I might be in FL the 3rd weekend of Nov. I'd LOVE to see you if it works out. I'll keep you posted as plans progress.

Jen said...

where in FL, Anna? that is awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

anna said...

On the east coast, near the town of Melbourne, I believe. :)

Jen said...

Wow.

Former Marine is now Gigantic Asshole.

At first it seemed like he would be nice aobut everything, but he kept texting me to ask to me to come over, etc...I kept sayin no and told him that I really liked him but I was gonna try with my ex again....anyway, on Thurs night he turned mean when I said no and tonight (when he texted AGAIN) he was downright nasty. I got a tirade that began with "are you stupid??" and ended with "fuck u!!!!!!!!!"

So much for being a gentleman.

Renee said...

Yikes :-( You haven't responded to that last one, have you? Hopefully he'll quit if you ignore his psycho stalker ass...