Shawn (oh yeah. He's back) affectionately called me "dramatic" last night. And all I did was refer to last week's flu as "my recent near-death experience." ;) (I MAY have added that it was "touch and go there for a while," LOL.)
Nik: really? or are you being sarcastic? cuz other than this whole "exclusive or not" thing, it's been smooth sailing.
speaking of which; yeah, i was trying to sneak that "he's back" thing by ya with relatively little fanfare but I got called out both here and through email. =-) Frankly, he was never gone at all, I just didn't want to say anything. after my "sorry but I can't roll this way" email, he called me, I went over there, but it didn't look like we could compromise because he said he still wasn't ready. well after THAT he emailed me and asked to see me, i told him again of my position, he said " i understand that" and later on said "all i want is you." now, did he come out and say "I will date no one else but you?" no. the old jen would have beat a dead horse until he said exactly what i wanted to hear...but for now, he knows how I feel, he's back and I think we're on the same page. =-) and things are going very, very well. at some point i'm sure i'll make a passing reference to being exclusive and see if he's all like "wait, what?" or something like that but for now, I want him to see how much fun dating me IS. ;) i dont wan to nag at him, i want to enjoy it and, well, trust him.
Thanks for responding to my email, hooch. You know what, despite what some others may think, I think Shawn seems like a good guy who knows what he wants. As long as YOU'RE happy with the arrangement, I say good for you!
nee- while I do appreciate that shawn has been honest with Jen, He wasn't initially when they first started dating. he put on his dating profile that he wanted a serious relationship. But, I don't think he has done anything wrong that holds grounds for us to be a man hater towards him. he has been upfront...so if Jen's happy, I am happy...
Jen-- I didn't realize how mean my comment sounded. It wasn't intended to sound that way. I was trying to be sarcastic, so I hope I didn't hurt your feelings or anything.
Regardless of what anyone says/thinks, you have to do what's right for you and what makes you happy. All any of us who love you can ask is for you to be happy.
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What do you mean "he's back." Did he come to his senses?
If your "relationship" hasn't indicated dramatic to this dude, all I can say is, wow.
Nik: really? or are you being sarcastic? cuz other than this whole "exclusive or not" thing, it's been smooth sailing.
speaking of which; yeah, i was trying to sneak that "he's back" thing by ya with relatively little fanfare but I got called out both here and through email. =-) Frankly, he was never gone at all, I just didn't want to say anything. after my "sorry but I can't roll this way" email, he called me, I went over there, but it didn't look like we could compromise because he said he still wasn't ready. well after THAT he emailed me and asked to see me, i told him again of my position, he said " i understand that" and later on said "all i want is you." now, did he come out and say "I will date no one else but you?" no. the old jen would have beat a dead horse until he said exactly what i wanted to hear...but for now, he knows how I feel, he's back and I think we're on the same page. =-) and things are going very, very well. at some point i'm sure i'll make a passing reference to being exclusive and see if he's all like "wait, what?" or something like that but for now, I want him to see how much fun dating me IS. ;) i dont wan to nag at him, i want to enjoy it and, well, trust him.
Thanks for responding to my email, hooch. You know what, despite what some others may think, I think Shawn seems like a good guy who knows what he wants. As long as YOU'RE happy with the arrangement, I say good for you!
nee- while I do appreciate that shawn has been honest with Jen, He wasn't initially when they first started dating. he put on his dating profile that he wanted a serious relationship. But, I don't think he has done anything wrong that holds grounds for us to be a man hater towards him. he has been upfront...so if Jen's happy, I am happy...
lol at him finally noticing that you're a bit dramatic ;)
I'm so glad things are going well with the boy! And I'm SO PROUD of your attitude towards the whole deal.
Sheila has a theory: be fun & fabulous and others will want to be with you. It works and you're proof!
Jen-- I didn't realize how mean my comment sounded. It wasn't intended to sound that way. I was trying to be sarcastic, so I hope I didn't hurt your feelings or anything.
Regardless of what anyone says/thinks, you have to do what's right for you and what makes you happy. All any of us who love you can ask is for you to be happy.
I don't know what everyone else thought, but I didn't think your comment sounded mean, Nik. Jen IS a dramatic gal, after all :-)
I just thought it was hilarious Nik!
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