tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6826264.post111585320791281641..comments2024-03-28T02:18:58.315-04:00Comments on Broken Road: Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01905898210443425461noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6826264.post-1115998577921516262005-05-13T11:36:00.000-04:002005-05-13T11:36:00.000-04:00"Good."Sorry I don't have anything more exciting f..."Good."<BR/><BR/>Sorry I don't have anything more exciting for ya. But it was the morning and she was getting ready to leave for work.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01905898210443425461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6826264.post-1115944070804294482005-05-12T20:27:00.000-04:002005-05-12T20:27:00.000-04:00"Turn into"?"Turn into"?Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01905898210443425461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6826264.post-1115928081798591782005-05-12T16:01:00.000-04:002005-05-12T16:01:00.000-04:00Holy crap, you mean I have a regular reader out th...Holy crap, you mean I have a regular reader out there who is actually following my life???<BR/><BR/>Pam, you rock! And thanks for finally commenting!<BR/><BR/>Anyway...I don't know either, Pam. Trust me, I'm still trying to figure this all out myself. In the conversations we've been having in recent days, it's become clear that there have been a lot of resentments on both sides, lots of hurt feelings--and I guess the "whirlwind" of our relationship has finally caught up with us. Everything has moved sooo fast and there's been drama of some kind the whole time. We just need to take a breather I guess.<BR/><BR/>And Anna, there are two reasons, I guess: 1) I need to make a clean break for right now. Just being in basically the same neighborhood as Jeff would make me too sad, knowing he's that close by but we're still so separated. (That was deep.) There are two many memories around here that I just need to get away from to give me that distance and perspective.<BR/><BR/>Secondly, no matter how much I love them, they're still my employers. Have you ever tried to live with a boss? Go move in with Melissa for a while and tell me how that works out. =-) You don't have "work time" and "you time" anymore. It all gets blurred together. I love the kids, but do I want to be with them 24-7? Not exactly.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01905898210443425461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6826264.post-1115923561730520982005-05-12T14:46:00.000-04:002005-05-12T14:46:00.000-04:00Where have I been?.... I stop reading for a few da...Where have I been?.... I stop reading for a few days and all hell break out. First I'm sorry to hear that you and Jeff broke up and what you are going through. It's really sad that you have to quit a job that you obviously love. What I don't understand if Jeff and you have talked about you staying there in August why don't you just stay the summer so you don't have to lose this wonderful family that you adore. Who knows what's going on between you two, but who knows maybe y'all can work through it. And just maybe with all the new changes that were taking place was putting a strain on the relationship. Jeff new job, your new job and maybe just the stress with the finances. And congrats on winning your bankruptcy case. Sorry so long I will stop preaching now.. I hope everything work out for the best...And oh yeah you don't know me...LOL PamAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6826264.post-1115911538803983712005-05-12T11:25:00.000-04:002005-05-12T11:25:00.000-04:00Oh, I'm sure they will. I'm giving them plenty of ...Oh, I'm sure they will. I'm giving them plenty of notice, I said I can help to interview new nannies, I'll stay a few days longer if they need the time, etc.<BR/><BR/>Plus, they LOVE me. The mom officially offered me their spare room. She said they would really hate to see me go, and that although Mr S was initially hesitant about having a nanny, she said that seeing the routine I've brought to the kids lives', not to mention helping Noah with his letter recognition and writing--she said Mr S "thinks this nanny thing is a pretty good idea."<BR/><BR/>So anyway--yeah, when I leave, I know they'll give me a good reference for my new family. They're a lot of mutual respect and affection here. I was so lucky to find this family.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01905898210443425461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6826264.post-1115874444432177482005-05-12T01:07:00.000-04:002005-05-12T01:07:00.000-04:00That is so incredibly sad Jen! I'm so sorry that ...That is so incredibly sad Jen! I'm so sorry that you have to go through this. I think the bond that you have with the family is pretty strong though and that you'll keep in touch for sure. Be strong and try to keep your head up!<BR/>Love ya BeeeotchNikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09929387083337422424noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6826264.post-1115862650555436812005-05-11T21:50:00.000-04:002005-05-11T21:50:00.000-04:00me too. you know we are all here for you girl! . M...me too. you know we are all here for you girl! . Much love for ya girl!keeshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02285728786354968827noreply@blogger.com